Ladies, can I get some help?

I understand that red hair on guys is an atrocity. I wish I had been blessed with different hair color but my parents weren't that generous. I see it everywhere, the discrimination against "gingers", that they have no souls etc. It's insulting and I've had enough. I'm tired of being last in the appeal race because women are shallow and have to any hair color but red. My question is what color to dye it. I have green eyes so what hair color would fuse with my eyes in a believable manner?