Why is there pain in your heart when something 'heartbreaking' happens?

I'm with you on this. I understand part 2 of your question and really hope to NOT experience part one. I actually shed a couple tears (I'm very sensitive, don't judge) when the Packers lost last week. It's very hard to see your team do great and then fall, shattering your hopes. I said it before, both of our teams are on the upswing. For me I keep telling myself how lucky the Packers are to have Aaron Rodgers, in his Sopre year he improved, did phenomenal and rated himself 4th in QB ratings, just under Rivers.